Maggie and I met officially at
a pair of mutual friend's wedding. (She would tell you we had met
before, but there was never an official introduction.) Maggie came up
to me at the reception and asked if I knew where the bathroom was. I
didn't know but I tried to guess, so I would have something to say.
Later in the evening I introduced myself and found out that she
already knew who I was because her roommate was in my Bible Study
group. We spent some time talking later that evening at the reception.
I was attracted to her and wanted to get to know her better.
We started hanging out with
friends and chatting on GMail chat often (almost everyday). I was
starting to really be interested and began working up the nerve to ask
her out. However, before I could actually ask, Maggie caught on and
let me know she just wanted to be friends. So we continued chatting on
GMail and hanging out in groups with our friends.
After about 5 months of
friendship, we spent a couple of weekends in a row hanging out with
friends. I was starting to foster interest in another girl and would
talk to Maggie about this girl. On one of these weekends that we spent
together she started to look at me differently. I wrote it off because
I didn't want to hurt our friendship and I thought she still wasn't
interested. A few days later she told me that she liked me. We spent 5
hours that night talking about our relationship. I walked away from
that conversation wanting to date her, but committed to praying about
our relationship.
Two days later we were supposed
to go see a movie with a group of friends, but our friends started
canceling. I was certain at this point that I wanted to date Maggie
and wanted to seize the opportunity. We were supposed to meet at the
movie theater to see the movie, but I left early to swing by a store
to pick up a dozen roses. I surprised her at her apartment and we went
to see the movie together for our first date.